Building a Godly Home, Vol. 2
A Holy Vision for a Happy Marriage
Hardcover. 288 Pages
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For years, William Gouge's Domestical Duties has stood as the foremost Puritan treatment of Christian family life. Yet due to its size and antiquated expression, it has become almost unknown among current generations of believers. To help revive the usefulness of this classic book, Scott Brown and Joel R. Beeke divided Gouge's work into three manageable volumes, updated the language to modern standards, and have given it the title Building a Godly Home.
In the second volume, A Holy Vision for a Happy Marriage, we find detailed counsel about the most important relationship in the family husband and wife. Gouge carefully addresses what a fit marriage is and the proper way to enter into one. He then discusses the mutual duties married couples share in order for marriage to survive and thrive, as well as the duties specific to men and women respectively. Not only does he give detailed treatment of how these responsibilities are best expressed and too often hindered, but he also provides ample biblical motivation to set us on the right course. Christian husbands and wives will find much encouragement in this book.
"The parity which is of greatest consequence between parties to be married is in piety. In this respect it is good that as a Christian be married to a Christian, so one that truly fears God to one of the same mind and disposition, as it is noted of Zacharias and Elizabeth, “they were both righteous before God”(Luke 1:6). A worthy couple, one worthy of another, being both alike in such excellent qualities, they could not but reap from each other much comfort and profit every way..."
'Few issues spell countercultural Christianity as does a biblical view of the home and its various relationships and responsibilities. Those like the seventeenth-century Presbyterian William Gouge, who provided a lengthy exposition of domestic life as outlined in Scripture, got themselves into trouble with those who viewed biblical teaching burdensome (Gouge was vilified by wealthy city women, for example). But domestic reform is essential if we are to reflect godliness in the home, and Gouge's once enormously popular Of Domestical Duties is without equal in describing what it looks like. A masterful guide, Gouge is pastoral, clear-headed, thoughtful, and eminently Bible-focused as he writes about the tasks, ideals, and problems of Christian family life. Once as popular as Bunyan's Pilgrim's Progressand Matthew Henry's Commentary, Gouge's Of Domestical Duties deserves a central place in the modern Christian home.'
- Derek Thomas , Senior Minister, First Presbyterian Church, Columbia, South Carolina
It’s fantastic! This book is hardly outdated. The perspective of God's Word is always relevant. The problem so many people have today is that they interpret the bible through the filter of modern culture and then say, “That was for then” or “Things were different back in the day.” The reason things were different “back in the day” is because the practice of the Church and Family was informed by God’s Word. Today the practice of the Church and Family in romance is informed by the culture. If the conclusions of this book feel “outdated” it’s because we’ve drifted far from our biblical heritage.
- Greg T.